When does the torture ever end? First it was pimples. Next it was that embarrassing voice change. Now, to add up to all the problems teenage life brings, here comes the biggest problem of all: girls. Giggling, squeamish, blushing girls.
Life would be much simpler if you could just ignore them the way you did back in second grade. But it's not that easy. The girls in high school are no longer what they were when you were still playing tag in the playground. They're so much nicer and more fun and... beautiful.
It's not easy to talk to girls (yes, TV makes it look so much easier). I mean, after practically ignoring them from kindergarten to the seventh grade, can you really expect a guy to just go up to a girl and say "Hi, remember me? I'm the kid who pushed you into a mud pie when we were seven"? So, what do you do or say when you want to talk to a girl?
1. Separate her from her pack.
Do you notice how teenage girls tend to go around in droves like wolves out for a hunt? These female "packs" are deadly. If you want to talk to a girl without being stared/giggled/laughed at, try to catch her without her posse when you approach her. This will not only save you from extreme nervousness and the possibility of embarrassing yourself, but will also give you and your girl some time alone to talk and get to know each other.
2. Find out the things she likes.
Are the awkward silences freaking you out? You'll have a lot more to talk about if you knew her hobbies and interests. Do your research. Does she like movies? You can talk to her about the latest box office hit. Is she into books? Ask her about her favorite authors and tell her about yours. Does she play basketball? Perfect! You can schedule a play-off next weekend. Knowing what a person likes not only helps you keep the conversation flowing. It also gives you an idea of the things you have in common - and those that you don't.
3. Take it easy.
Don't declare undying love for her a day after you've talked about your favorite ice cream in the school cafeteria! Take it nice and slow. Girls don't like being rattled: it takes time for them to open up to new people in their lives. Don't rush it. Save the mushy poetry for later. For now, concentrate on being her friend and only that. Once you've reached friend status, then you can start thinking about getting a bit "friendlier."
4. Group date.
Once you've established friendship, you can now move on to the next step: asking her out. At this point, it is much better to go out with friends, as being in a group would make you both feel more comfortable. Also, this is a good time to observe a girl you like in her "natural" state. Having other people around would take the pressure off of her in trying to impress you. The way a girl acts with and towards her friends says a lot about her personality. Trust me, you'd want to know.
With these four tips, you're all set! Welcome to world of teenage dating, boy!
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